When I first started wearing my chastity cock cage I felt like everyone was staring at me. Like they knew that I had this cage locked in place and they were judging me because of it. Of course no one knew that I had anything on under my clothes but it felt like they did. I was so nervous that someone would come out and say something about it that I almost gave up on ever going out in public again. Then I came across a blog online from another guy that was wearing a cage, too.
He had gone through the same feelings that I had when he first started wearing his chastity cock cage but he didn’t let it get to him. Instead, he started letting people know that he had a cage on. At first they thought he was weird for sharing that kind of information with them but, after a while, people started understanding why he was wearing it. They would get interested and start looking things up online and soon they were congratulating him on his choices. Now that all could have been a fictitious account created by a writer, but it had me wondering if I could do something like that as well.
As it turns out, telling people that you are wearing a male chastity cock cage isn’t the best thing to do. At least not total strangers and as a way of breaking the ice with them. Some of my friends just laughed at me when I told them, but I found that even the laughter and strange looks gave me more confidence. It was strange, but letting my secret get out there made me feel like I had more freedom in my life. I can’t really explain it in words but I feel that it was the right choice for me. It might be the same for you, too.